I saw this image on another site… Please follow the link for the main site that is hosting the picture, but this says it best.
Month: February 2009
It’s not as hard as it sounds, really.Â But if you watch people today, many of them would seem like either they do not remember how to, or chose not to be nice to others.
Where I see the best examples of this is in the retail arena.Â Working retail is hard enough, I know, I spent the about twelve years in retail and had the pleasure of seeing almost every type of personality.Â The good, the bad and the ugly, they are all people that crossed my path through the course of my retail career, thus giving me a point of view that not everyone has.
I try to be nice to most people, even those that are rude to me.Â Granted, I do have my breaking point where when a person is continuously rude or hateful to me, I will crack and return the feelings.Â The problem with that, when you reach that point, you have lost.Â You are no longer controlling the situation and there is no way to truly recover the control.
More often than not, anymore, I will try and counter the situation with humor or irony.Â Most of the time those are invaluable weapons to use against a person that is obviously in a bad or bitter mood, but unlike anger, it will sometimes cause the other person to see their own problem as being a little less important or, maybe, cause them to laugh at themselves.
I like to talk to people that are having a bad day, it is almost as though I see them as a challenge that needs to be won.Â A good example of this is a time I was going through drive through at a local Burger King.Â When I got to the window, the lady was in a very sour mood.Â After I got my food and change, I decided to try something, so I sat there.Â She came back to the window and asked if there was something else that I needed.Â I said “I know you are having a bad day, so if I give you a smile, will you share it with others?”Â She looked at me funny, then I told her a joke… “A horse walks into a bar and up to the counter.Â The Bar Tender look at him and asked ‘What’s with the long face?'”
She gave me a genuine laugh and thanked me.Â This was the first time I tried something like that, and it worked.Â I am not normally that outward, but I taught myself a lesson and I helped someones day get a little better.
To be fair, it is hard to be nice to people that are in a bad mood.Â It is hard to be nice to people that are having a bad day or are in the funks.Â I know this from personal experience.Â That is why I think that the BEING nice part is an art.Â You have to learn to be nice in situations that you normally would not be.
So… the next time you are out there, and someone has an attitude… try something new… try and make them laugh at themselves or at you.
I love a good movie but I tend to be especially enamored with the little known or low budget movies that are out there.
Of these, one of my all time favorites has to be Buckaroo Banzai: Across the Eighth Dimension.
For those of you who are not familiar with this movie, it follows a story by Earl Mac Rauch about Buckaroo Banzai…Â a Physicist, Brain Surgeon, Band Leader, etc… and his team as they try to defeat the Red Lectroids.
In all seriousness, this was not a great movie.Â It did little in the theaters, at least those that would actually show it and even then, it did not stay in theaters very long.Â In fact, I first saw this movie as a rental back in the mid 80s while at the birthday party of my Nephew.Â Since that day I was hooked and at this time I have seen the movie more than 250 times.
In fact, I have seen this movie so many times that I have the entire script memorized and will usually recite the lines as they are happening.Â My wife will not even watch the movie with me, I am so bad about it.
You know… there is something that is enjoyable about a movie like this.Â Yes, it is a dumb movie.Â Yes, the dialogue leaves a lot to be desired. No, it won no awards that I am aware of, please correct me if I am wrong.Â By there is something about watching a movie whose only redeeming quality is the fantasy quotient that it provides, that ability to make the person watching is just have fun.
The other fun thing about a movie like this is inviting friends over and throwing that in the DVD player for them to see.
Watch out Russ…Â ;-D
Yesterday I heard something great.Â Something that is what so many of us wanted to say since Chairman / Citizen Obama bought the whitehouse.
Rick Santelli, of whom I have only heard bits and pieces about over the last couple years, launched into a tirade on national television.Â His topic was nothing more than what every NORMAL US citizen is thinking about right now regarding this housing fiasco and CBO’s Gang’s decision to bail out all the people that may end up losing their homes, who should have never been able to buy homes in the first place.
For those of you who were not lucky enough to see this speech of his, I am including a link HERE.Â You have ABSO-FRICKEN-LUTELY got to watch this.
Rick is my new favorite celeb!
We need more people out there to stir the pot like this guy is doing.Â More people need to start getting passionate about what is happening in this country and helping to stop this administation from “Sharing the Wealth.”
So… it sounded like a good way to start a piece that I guess I will call my “Jerry Seinfield” piece.Â It is a piece about, really, nothing.Â I am sort of without much to comment on at the moment except political fecal matter, and I am really tired of that right at the moment.Â I mean, I do have lots to say, but I think that I need to take a break from that for a bit.Â Both for your sake and for mine.
How far do you have to go to get to work each day?Â It does not matter if you walk, drive, bike, skip or do cartwheels.Â Do you have to go a few miles or a few hundred? Or are you one of those lucky fools that works from home?
I am a little bit lucky.Â I work about five minutes, driving, from home… yet I still find a way to be a couple minutes late for work at least once a week.Â I blame this on bad time management on my part, nothing else.
Several years ago I was offered the oportunity to work from my home.Â One of my bosses at the time, a guy named Chuck McVay, asked if I would like to work out of my home.Â Thankfully I was smart enough to say no… my reasons were completely honest… I do not have the discipline to do so without being distracted by all the other things going on in my home.Â I have my Blog, the TV, three dogs, two cats, a huge DVD collection, large CD collection, XBox…Â anyway, I am sure you see the problem here.Â At least I am big enough to admit I have a problem with it and not try then get screwed.
But the trip to work is not that bad.Â I have several fast food locations to choose from along the way, a Starbucks, a gas station.Â Speaking of Starbucks, if you have not already tried their breakfast sandwiches, do so.Â They are actually pretty good eats.Â Let’s hope that they keep them, since they are having some issues right now and might decide to take that off their menu.
Another thing that stands out to me while driving to work is the other people that I see along the way.Â I mean, it is not a long trip, so there is no time to develop that interesting “I need to go faster than you” relationship that we all seem to have with the others that we meet while driving.Â But there are some interesting things to be seen.Â People putting on make-up, guys shaving, people eating, and the always present people talking on the phone.Â That is always fun to watch, as it is just another example of what a joke the VC32123 and 32124 laws were.
The people I get the biggest kick out of watching drive are the ones with the unruly children.Â These are the people that you usually can make out from about ten cars back.Â The one that is weaving all over the road and the driver is half in the back seat trying to beat the kid with their cell phone or an empty Starbucks cup, having already spilled the contents on the passenger seat or in their lap.Â These have to be the most entertaining of them all.Â There is nothing that gets you laughing more than seeing a person losing a fight to a child by acting almost the same age as the child they are trying to get to.
If you have not noticed by now, and if you are a regular reader of mine (don’t worry, I do not think there is such a thing.) I tend to try and see the humor of the little funny things that happen through my life.Â You never know when you will not have it to laugh at any more, so laugh while you can.
At times like this, I am reminded of a quote from “Buckaroo Banzai: Across the eighth dimension” (one of the greatest movies ever made!!!)
Lord John Worfin:Â “Laugh while you can, Monkey-Boy.”
I see the commercials all the time, they permeate late night television preceded by that warning that the following commercial contains adult situations.Â You are then presented by about a minute of women in various states of nudity.Â All blocked out in the appropriate areas but the censor panels.
Trust me… I am a normal male and sometimes I am curious about these movies, and I have seen at least one complete video once, but I cannot justify paying for something like this.Â But seeing these commercials does cause me to wonder about a few things.
Before I proceed, let me tell anyone reading this that I am not berating or condemning any of the people that make these videos.Â They are all adults and I am relatively certain that none of the people in the videos are caused to participate out of duress.
I understand that there is good money in porn… and in spite of what anyone will tell you, these programs are pornography.Â They do not, in my opinion, qualify as art.Â That being said, I can also understand that if the girls in these videos are being paid for their performances, use this as a medium to get fast cash, and for their sake, I do hope that they make some money from these shows.
I do have a concern, though, for the people that participate in these movies.Â What happens after the initial excitement of making them wears off?Â What happens when these ladies suddenly realize what they have just done and that they are now the focal point of fantasies all over the world? because I have to think that these are not just sold in the USA, but elsewhere as well.
I am sure that there are those of the women that participate that really do not care that they are now on display, but I am sure that there are also many more that will suddenly have that moment of clarity where they see what they have done as a mistake.Â Whether it is just after the video is shot, or when they happen to see themselves on one of those late night TV ads or when someone at their REAL job or in their school recognises them and figures that if they made a show like that, then they are probably easy “lays”.
There is no doubt that there is a market for these types of movies.Â They sell very well, if you read up on the people that put the movies out.Â But I do wonder what the long term effect is on those that are in them.
If you happen to stumble upon this article, and you are someone that participated or knows someone that has, in these programs.Â Please share your thoughts with me.Â I would really like to hear your story.
One of the greatest things that any potential messiah has to overcome is the ability to not be overshadowed by that which is expected of him.Â In days of old, it was common for people that were not able to prove their divinity to be taken out and stoned… and no, I do not mean they were taken out and forced to drink great quantities of liquer or smoke dope.
These days, however, people are always touting themselves as divine.Â Take your pick… Jim Jones, David koresh, etc… The problem is that now adays, no one buys it anyway.Â Chances are that if there really is a “Second Coming”, the person will be commited and shortly thereafter put on a heavy prescription or lobotomized.
All that being said, I offer for your consideration this train of thought suggesting that Citizen Obama is some sort of Messiah or spiritual figure.Â You can see such suggestions on sites like the following:
Reading through this site, I am not sure if the writer is poking fun at the thought that CBO is being cast in this light, or if he seriously thinks that this is the case.
My point and the reason for my writing this piece, is not to defrock CBO, not to pop the bubbles of all those zealots out there that wish to follow in the wake of his (potential) Holiness Citizen Barack Obama to whatever cup of Kool Aid he may be serving them.Â But to offer a warning to anyone, including Barack, who might actually start believing this tripe.
When people put someone on a pedistal the way they have CBO, something happens that it potentially very dangerous.Â That is that there is a great deal of hope and expectation.Â There is a lot riding on his ability to succeed here, and people are already casting him as some end-all-be-all for the woes and troubles of America.Â What happens if he does not succeed, which I suspect will be the case?Â Will CBO be able to live up to all the expectations that others have for him?Â Will he be able to walk up to the sea of red tape that is our political system and raise his hands and part the two sides of the house and the senate and cause bills to be passed?Â Can he envoke some modern version of the twelve plauges on those that defy his will?
OK… I digress.Â The point is that he has a lot of things that are expected of him that he will, more than likely, not achieve.Â If people out there truly feel this way about him, then for that I actually feel sorry for him, because he has no way to win… it is a no-win scenario.
As for if he is all that people expect him to be, I am not worrying about that either… because not being a Christian, I am screwed anyway.Â But if Ted Kennedy is still drinking, then CBO is going to be his new best friend, never have to pay for another drink again as long as he brings the water.