What is beauty?Â What does it mean to be beautiful? What do you consider beauty to be?
More or less I think that too many people attribute beauty to be solely that which is on the outside, beauty of the flesh not of the spirit or the mind, when in reality, regardless of how a person looks, THAT is where the TRUE beauty lies.
Media, today, does nothing to help the matter in that most of what you see on television, movies and magazines are designed, either by intention or happenstance, to shame people who do not appear a certain way, dress a certain way or otherwise fit a certain category.Â This is, in turn leading to people hating themselves because they do not like the way they look.
Popular culture is brainwashing us into thinking we all need to look like people like Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie, Tyra Banks and George Clooney, when in reality there is nothing wrong with looking like who we were to begin with.
People as young as in their early teens and as old as their eighties are going in for surgeries to augment themselves, make themselves look younger, make themselves prettier.Â Except in rare cases, there was nothing wrong with them to begin with and they looked just fine.Â But because they did not look like a super model or a certain actor or actress, they do it any way.
To be fair and honest, yes… I considered cosmetic surgery for a while.Â My reason was because of some discolorations I have under my eyes as a result of some malnutrition issues when I was very young.Â But that is it.Â I am not looking to liposuction my waist, tighten my butt, make my skin more taught… you see, that is what exercising and diet is all about.Â It’s called NOT BEING LAZY.
One last thing I think people need to remember is this.Â If you are not happy with the way you look, then all the surgery in the world is not going to correct the issues you may have.Â If you were not happy being who you are before, what makes you think a little nip and tuck here and there is going to help you?Â Doctors should offer FREE extensive counseling to anyone who comes in for cosmetic surgery, that does not have a need for it other than to look prettier.Â Be they would never do that because of the potential lost revenue.