What do you stand up for?Â What ideals or principles do you feel so strongly about that you will stand up for them no matter what? Are you willing to sacrifice your career or reputation in the defense of your beliefs, as long as doing so does not cause or create physical harm to others or violate any just laws?
When Carrie Prejean was asked about her opinion on “Gay Marriage”, her response was a testament to her personal stand on that issue.Â She could have told the judges a lie and told them what they wanted to hear in an effort to increase her chances to win the Miss America pageant, but she did not.Â She had a code that she lives by and stood up for it.Â Didn’t Citizen Barack recently espouse the SAME sentiment of what HE though marriage meant?
Regardless of how you feel about the topic, you have to respect the fact that she did not bend her standards in order to increase her chances of winning.Â She chose not to take the easy way out.
Now… there is a lot about the pageant that I will not speak to for two reasons… first is that I have always thought that beauty pageants were silly.Â Second is that, anymore, they are not about true “beauty”, but about how much beauty you can purchase.Â Lastly… I do not care.Â Seriously… the only reason this stood out to me is because of the news that it has garnered through all the groups that were offended by her comment.Â There is actually a LOT of this that I had to research before writing this piece.
Before this news hit the stand, I had not a clue who Carrie Prejean was and now wish I had never heard the name Perez Hilton and in my reading (and yes… watching his video regarding the pageant), I am mystified why anyone would consider anything that he had to say as important.Â People wonder why I choose to steer clear of the television as much as possible.Â Either way, this has been a little bit of an education for me.
To be honest, and in my own opinion, I too support Carrie’s take on “Gay Marriage.”Â I do not believe in it, but that is my opinion.Â I will tell you that if you were to ask me and I am more than willing to debate the issue, standing up for why I believe it is wrong.Â But the fact that I am standing up for my beliefs is my point here, I will not bend just because you might be offended.
It is like the old saying goes.Â “You have to stand for something, or you will fall for anything.”Â The same is true here.Â If you start caving in on your beliefs just because they do not make you popular or help you win a show, then when and where does it stop?Â You give in on one thing, then another, then another and before you know it, you are a politician.
There… I have said my piece and will leave it at that.Â If you disagree with me, more power to you… speak up!Â I am always interested in a little friendly debate and I will respect your ability to stand up for your beliefs…Â even if I do not agree with them.
Warning…Â If you choose to debate, I am game, but I will not tolerate attacks for the sake of attack.Â Those will be deleted immediately.
Thank you for your time.