I smile when I hear people tell me about how much my life is going to change with a baby on the way.
Not because I do not believe them, I have no doubt at all that things are going to be turned asunder for us. but because our life has already changed in more ways that I can even count. Naty’s life changes go without saying, those are and will remain obvious to anyone that comes around right now and to anyone that visits after the baby comes along. But there are so many things that have changed in both our lives that are not readily visible to the outside, but any parent will recognize once we start talking about them.
As I had mentioned in a prior article, there are things that just are not that important any more. Things that at one time needed me to give them my main focus, have fallen to the wayside. If I were to go into details, this article would become long and very boring, but suffice it to say that I am laughing at the changes I have gone through just since I found out.
I am sure that anyone that experiences fatherhood for the first or fifth time goes through these same things… these feelings or changes of feelings. Their minds start going into that “Nurturing” mode, where they start thinking about the welfare of the family over their personal needs. They start thinking about how they can make life good for the child at the expense of the little things that they used to like to do.
That is where I am now. Where both of us are now, and this is where we should be. This child is going to be the center of our universe for a long time. Suddenly there is nothing else in our lives quite as important as this little mass that is growing in my wife right now.
As always… I would love to hear any stories or comments that you might have and would like to share with me.
Merry Christmas and Happy Channukah!
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