I have been bad…
I have been so busy recently that I have not taken the time to write anything on this site, something that I need to do from time to time to share my observations with those of you that are interested in reading that which I choose to share.
This last six months has been incredible. It seems like with each day that passes, I learn something new about myself, about life, about my relationship with my wife, and, most importantly, about Gideon.
Today, Gideon is a 19 pound, 27 inch long little boy that shows nothing less than a love for learning anything and everything that he can about the world around him. He watches everything and you can see that he is trying to figure it out. Not just looking at things to look at them, he wants to know why things are what they are.
Watching him experience the world, by itself, is a pure joy. Living vicariously through his little eyes, I am learning to see wonder in life again. Wonder in things that I have started taking for granted, in my old age. When I see him look at something that he has not seen before, and I see his eye turn into saucers as he takes it all in, suddenly I see it anew as well.
Things as simple as our dogs running through the house excites his curiosity and interest. And there is nothing more fun than watching him pay attention to them and reaching for them as they run past him.
He has done to me what all the exercising and vitamins I have taken in my life cannot, and that is make me feel young again. Through him, I am learning to enjoy life and to appreciate little things that I had started to just not pay attention to anymore.
My life, because of this new little life, has taken on new meaning and new direction. No longer am I doing what I do for me, I am doing for the life of Gideon. So that he will have something the look forward to as he grows older. It is no longer a case of my doing what I want for my wife and I, it is a case of my doing what is best for Gideon, and the considerations of my wife and I are now secondary to that. And while at one time I would have had a problem with that, now I am perfectly fine with this. It just seems and feels perfectly natural.
Lastly… I see a new need to live a better life, myself.
My Father passed away as a result of cancer when he was only 53 years old, granted, he did lead a rough life and was a very old 53 (if you were to have met him, you would think he was older.) But the fact is that when he passed away, 53 was still considered young.
I do not lead the life that he did… I rarely drink, I do not smoke and I would like to think I have a pretty happy life, in spite of myself. But I do have other vices that I need to change, which I will not bore you with. But suffice it to say that I need to change my way of living around a bit to ensure that I will be here for Gideon for years and years to come.
As always… thank you for reading this.